01: The week got away from me.
I often get to the end of a week and wonder where the time went.
Then I noticed something. That feeling of being behind was coming more from the things that hadn’t happened.
Whether that was the email I’ve ignored all week, the idea that I still hadn’t started on or the conversation that never quite finished.
Those things might not have been on my to-do list anymore but they were occupying my attention.
On reflection, many of them didn’t actually need action. They simply needed me to accept that they were over.
Before rushing into the next week, I’m pausing for tea to decide what I can put down and what genuinely deserves my attention now.
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02: Unfinished Tasks Can Silently Drain Your Energy
Neuroscientist Wendy Suzuki explains "open loops" and why incomplete tasks linger in the background of our thinking.
Read now: Economic Times
03: Attention Residue: The Hidden Tax of Context-Switching
Explores how unfinished tasks continue occupying mental bandwidth long after we've moved on. Highlights the fact that unfinished things often live in our attention rather than our calendars.
Listen now: Economic Times
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Erica x
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