01: You can finish work and still be working.
You might have closed your laptop for the day, dinner is ready and you’re straight into your evening. Yet part of your attention is still focused on that unanswered email, a meeting you’re replaying or a task that’s waiting for tomorrow.
Your day doesn’t end because you got everything done. They end because we've reached the point where we've done enough for today.
What keeps following us into the evening isn’t always the work. Sometimes it’s the attention we’ve left attached to it.
I’ve started ending my workday with a cup of tea and a notebook.
When I've done enough for the day, I write down everything that's still whirling in my mind. I sort it into Now, Next, In Progress and Later.
Nothing is finished simply because it’s written down. It just has somewhere to wait.
That small ritual gives me permission to stop carrying the day into my evening.
Tomorrow knows where to begin. Tonight, I don’t have to keep holding it all.
p.s. Your pause for tea this week is brought to you by Big Red Rooibos - discover more teas here.
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02: Misery Loves Company - If There Are Snacks
A fascinating piece on "Admin Nights" where people gather to tackle life admin together. It touches on unfinished tasks, open loops, and why seemingly small obligations consume so much mental space.
Read now: New Yorker
03: How More Focus Leads to a Better Life
In this practical TED talk, brain expert Mark Tigchelaar shows how we can improve our attention span and concentration, by using insights from neuroscience. He explores attention, focus, and how cognitive overload affects everyday life. Time to focus on attention management rather than time management...
Watch now: TED Talks
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Erica x
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I like your suggestion for four categories to end the day. I will try that. And rooibos - so good.