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The Courage Cup Tea Routine
Fear doesn't knock. It floods.
It shows up just when you're ready to move.
Ready to speak.
Ready to do the thing that matters most.
As a Water Element type, fear is my default stress response.
It's not rational.
It's not helpful.
And when you're running a business, it’s not optional to ignore.
But I've learned to listen.
First, I pause.
Not a big pause.
Just enough time to make a cup of green tea - Wood Element, the energy of forward motion.
Then I sit with the fear. I feel it fully.
And I remind myself:
Fear is just the body’s way of saying “I don’t know what happens next.”
So I seek knowing.
I get clear on the dream.
I define the next, tiny, doable step.
And then I take it.
Not because I’m no longer afraid.
But because I made space to feel it first.
That’s the critical part:
The tea.
The breath.
The sacred pause.
Fear ignored will sabotage you.
Fear faced will guide you.
So the next time you feel stuck, don’t power through.
Pause.
Sip.
Listen.
Then move.
𝗪𝗵𝗶𝗰𝗵 𝘁𝗲𝗮 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗺𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝗳𝗲𝗮𝗿?
p.s It's Jasmine Pearls for me.
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Meditation’s effect on processing fear
A new study from C. Maher & ors (published 4 Feb 2025 in PNAS) offers some of the strongest evidence yet that meditation directly changes how our brains process fear and emotion.
Using rare intracranial EEG recordings from epilepsy patients, researchers saw shifts in beta and gamma brain waves inside the amygdala and hippocampus - deep regions tied to memory and emotional regulation - after just ten minutes of loving-kindness meditation.
These brain rhythms are often disrupted in anxiety and depression, so the ability to influence them through a simple mental practice is powerful. While the study was small, it suggests meditation can give us a way to “reset” fear responses in real time, helping us approach challenges with more calm, clarity, and compassion.
For anyone navigating fear or anxiety, this reinforces what many of us already feel during a tea pause: even a few intentional minutes of stillness can start to reshape the storm within.
Read now: Research on meditation...
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The Power Pause
How power-pausing can transform fear into clarity and confidence with Jeanette Bronee (TEDx). Pop the kettle on…
Watch here: How power-pausing can transform fear into clarity and confidence
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