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S1 #46 Becoming the Kind of Person Who Waits

What if your next breakthrough is just one return away?

Episode Summary

In this episode, we explore what it really takes to stay the course - even when no one’s watching. Inspired by the remarkable story of photographer Alan McFadyen (who took 720,000 shots over 6 years to capture one perfect photo of a kingfisher mid-dive), this episode invites you to reflect on the quiet power of repetition, ritual, and the long game.

We unpack what it means to become someone who returns. Someone who waits. Someone who doesn’t quit just because it’s hard or invisible or unrewarded … yet.


In this episode:

  • (00:01:00) The kingfisher dive: a 6-year promise in one perfect photo

  • (00:03:20) Why we abandon habits too soon (and what it costs us)

  • (00:04:00) My personal story: showing up online when no one responded

  • (00:05:00) Inner critics, team rituals, and the power of tiny returns

  • (00:06:30) A Tea Routine to build your “return muscle”

  • (00:07:45) The question to carry with you this week


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