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S2 • #89 • When You’re Making It Harder Than It Needs To Be

How a simple tea pause can help you slow down, think more clearly and choose what matters next

Episode Summary

This episode is about what happens when a good idea becomes so complicated that it stalls completely.

Erica shares a real example from developing a bespoke tea blend. What began as an exciting idea disappeared down a rabbit hole of complexity, technical challenges and stubborn determination to make the original version work.

When she paused to see things through a simpler lens, she finally saw the way forward. By letting things flow more easily she realised she could stop pushing, while maintaining standards and not giving up on the idea.

You may notice where perfection, possibility or too many variations are making something more complicated than it needs to be.

The question is, what happens if you make the hard thing easier?

Today’s episode is brought to you by: Kuki Cha, a Sencha green tea made using the stalks and stems from Sencha production. It’s light and clear with gentle grassy notes and a slightly sweet, nutty character.

It brings a sense of simplicity, which makes it a fitting tea for an episode about stripping away unnecessary complexity and seeing what makes sense.


In this pause for tea, you’ll discover:

  • 01:29 A simple invitation to notice one thing that has become harder than expected

  • 04:22 How wanting something to reach its full potential can stop us taking action

  • 05:08 The bespoke tea blend that became so complicated the project stalled

  • 06:30 What changed when Erica stopped pushing and looked at the blend through a simpler lens

  • 07:00 The question to ask when you’re holding onto the perfect version of something

  • 08:39 Why something great that can exist may matter more than something amazing that never does

“You can always make something more complicated later, but perhaps simpler is what allows it to exist in the first place.”

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Thanks for pausing for tea with me today.
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Erica x

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